CHANGE OF VENUE Saturday pub afternoon, ENGINEERS HOUSE and NOT Haymakers
Oct. 23rd, 2026 01:14 pmI'll be there from 13:30 but if you go down a bit early you might beat the rain, but being waterproofs for getting home! :)
I think people overestimate BL when they treat it as the “face” of female-oriented media, or as “representation” of it, acting like women are abandoning female characters. In reality, most mainstream women’s media still centers female characters as the protagonists, and those works are straight romances, by the way.
BL is only the face of female-oriented media within otaku spaces, and that isn’t weird or “erasing” women, male otaku media feature a lot female characters, does it count as feminism? plus Japanese mainstream media has plenty of straight romance with women and girls as the POV and the josei genre, which is still focused on women.
I don’t know why BL gets so much heat when it’s only a big niche within a certain subculture and hasn’t reached the mainstream. I really need you all to see the reality before spewing that “BL is erasing women in female-oriented media,” because it’s factually wrong on so many levels.
I also don’t get why people are so keen on painting BL as this giga-misogynist media when plenty of straight and male-oriented media is far more sexist than BL.
This isn't saying there's no misogyny element exist in BL, they do but that's not exclusive to BL and every other genre also has misogyny (including Yuri too). Like I don't know how to say this but we still live in patriarchal society and it's ingrained in our system, so misogyny will always be ''planted'' there whether we realized it or not. criticizing it is fine, but why most criticism here always resort to generalizing and making radical statement that doesn't reflect reality (in this case, saying BL erasing women from women-oriented media & contribute to misogyny)
Much of this letter is c&p'd from years past, because I'm a predictable person I guess.
Hello, I'm yasaman both here and on AO3! I am open to receiving treats!
Another year, another Yuletide! :D Thank you for signing up to write in one of my fandoms! I can't wait to see whatever you come up with, and with these fandoms, chances are I'll love whatever it is you choose to write. If my requests/prompts/details don't catch your interest, just remember that Optional Details Are Optional, and that I will be thrilled to get fic in any of these fandoms at all.
As far as my basic preferences go: I am okay with gen, het, slash, and femslash. If I've indicated a pairing preference in my request, don't feel pressured to write it! I'm a big gen lover, and I'll specifically note if there's a pairing I don't want to see with the characters I've requested. Also, a confession: I usually skim through sex scenes. I know, I know, what am I doing in fandom if I skim past the porn. But I am almost always way more interested in character interaction than in sexy times. Feel free to include sex scenes! I'd just really prefer that porn not be the whole point of the fic.
Things I love: happy endings, banter, subtle but meaningful declarations of love and/or trust, pining, characters finding home and family with each other, the smaller moments of domesticity or the calm before the storm, crossovers, detailed worldbuilding, lolz, feelings, women being complex and sometimes assholes, dudes being stoic yet simmering with repressed emotions, people being kind to each other in ways both obvious and not obvious, any number of forced intimacy situations (fake married! Undercover relationship! Surprise soul bond! Huddling for warmth! Oh no there’s only one bed! Sex pollen! I could go on, really), threesomes/sedoretu-style moresomes, and indulgent emotional hurt/comfort.
DNWs that apply in general: dark fic, character bashing, permanent character death of canon characters (this DNW does not apply to any canonical character deaths), non-con, infidelity, incest, alpha/beta/omegaverse fic, mpreg, harm to children beyond any such harm already referenced in the canon, being mean to robots, unhappy endings (that are not canonical, at least), issuefic (by which I mean dealing with racism/sexism/homophobia/transphobia etc. or sexual orientation and/or identity being the focus of the fic), ageplay, infantilization, daddy/mommy kink, scat, watersports, extreme underage, humiliation or anything that would trigger secondhand embarrassment, gaslighting, mundane AUs, readerfic. I do not want any AI-generated or AI-assisted fic.
1. 17776: What Football Will Look Like in the Future - Any (Juice, Nine, Ten, Hubble, Worldbuilding)
Am I going to keep requesting this every year, no matter how many fics I get? Probably!
2. Super Supportive - Sleyca - Loh Alis-art'h, Jeneth-art'h, Ryada-bess (can feature any of these characters)